Residents of the exclusive Montecito community have observed notable differences in how their famous neighbors engage with local life. While one half of the high-profile couple appears to embrace community interaction, the other maintains a more reserved presence.
Local accounts describe the husband as consistently approachable, frequently spotted at neighborhood establishments and willing to engage in casual conversation. His recognizable accent and friendly demeanor have reportedly made him a welcome presence in the Santa Barbara County area.
The same cannot be said for his wife, according to community members. Described as maintaining distance from neighbors, she allegedly declined a welcoming gesture from a local historian shortly after the couple’s arrival in 2020. The elderly gentleman’s attempt to present documentary films about the area was reportedly rebuffed at the property entrance.
One longtime resident characterized the wife as maintaining “a very controlled image,” paying meticulous attention to public appearances and gestures. This contrasts with the community’s preference for simplicity, even among its celebrity residents.
The couple’s differing approaches to community integration have become a topic of local discussion. While the husband appears comfortable in casual settings—from beach outings to coffee shop visits—his wife maintains a significantly lower profile, leading some to describe her relationship with the community as distant.
Not all neighbors share this perspective, however. Another prominent local resident previously defended the couple, emphasizing their genuine interest in community participation rather than seeking special treatment. This supporter highlighted ordinary sightings of the couple engaging in everyday activities as evidence of their integration efforts.
The pair relocated to their Montecito estate in mid-2020 after previous residences in the United Kingdom and Canada, followed by a temporary stay in Beverly Hills.
